Intimate Massage Photos and Instructions
With The
SpaChair™
By Meg and Tom Rogers, CMT
For Compass Institute,
Inc.
Sharing a sensual massage with your partner is a particularly satisfying way to
awaken the natural wonders of the senses. It can free your SpaChair from daily
worries, help you to relax physically and psychologically, and also transform
and improve your way of making love, opening new horizons for sexual
gratification and emotional communication.
Giving a sensual massage isn't difficult. So let's learn together to enjoy the
simple pleasures that our body allows us and transform what was once a quick
race towards orgasm into a long and luxurious swim in the oceans of pleasure.
Basic
Principals For A Pleasurable Massage
- Focus on your partner: This is no time to be thinking of your next/last
business meeting, shopping, sports or your turn to be massaged. Focus your
mind on your partner, what he/she is feeling and how you can give him/her more
pleasure
- Allow for enough time. Allow twenty minutes for an intimate massage (times two
if each partner is receiving a massage) and a bunch more time for the
lovemaking that will hopefully follow.
- Be creative: Just let yourself feel whatever you are feeling and go with your
intuition. As long as what you are doing is generated from caring and
commitment to your partner, it is going to be good for both.
- Intimate massage should not cause pain: If your partner says, “that hurts”,
STOP.
Setting the Mood and the Scene
- Scents: Aromas trigger a mighty emotional response because they enter your nose and
immediately move to the midbrain area, which is the seat of your emotions and
memories. So if you have or can get scented candles, incense, flowers or other
aromatherapy triggers, now is the time for them. A nice warm bath with scented powders or
liquids can prepare the skin with nice scents. If none of these, your
partner’s favorite perfume or cologne dabbed sparingly would be good.
- Sights: Place candles to cast an enchanting glow and interesting shadows.
Flowers, even a small bunch, give the massage area a feeling of being special.
If none of the above are available, simply dim the lights or throw a colored
scarf over the lampshade to create instant mood lighting
- Sounds: These can contribute to or detract from the mood, and/or they can mask
other distracting sounds. Recordings of exotic sound makers such as gongs,
wind chimes, Tibetan meditation bowls or water flowing or bubbling, are
available in most music stores. A number of CDs provide music appropriate for
massage, again in your favorite store. Absent any of these, tuning the radio
low, to classical or other melodic and restful music may be just the thing.
Location
- Privacy: Turn off the TV. Put a “Do Not Disturb” sign. Try to schedule the
massage for a time when you will have no interruptions. Turn off the phone
(cell phone, pager, etc).
- Warmth: Avid areas with a draft or air conditioning vent directly overhead.
Crank up the thermostat an hour before starting so that the area is at a nice
70 degrees. Even better if you have a fireplace.
- Space: You will need some space to maneuver around in. Before you begin, make
certain that you have enough room on all sides to move without disturbing your
partner.
Clothing
- Optional
- Actually it may be more erotic to start with some clothing (underwear, bra and
panties) so that the imagination can play a larger role.
Sensual Touch
- The right intention: A fine line lies between sensual and sexual massage, and
believe it or not, sometimes sensual is better. Sensual massage is more
relaxed and doesn’t expect anything. So once and a while, simply enjoy the
touch with out thinking about where it may lead, and it may lead to something
even better.
- Sensitivity: You need to be sensitive to your partner’s emotions during the
massage. Be caring and warm. You don’t have to beat your partner’s tensions
into submission or accomplish anything. Just be there with her/him.
- Soft Hands: In sensual massage, the idea is not so much to sooth you partners
sore muscles, but to enchant him/her. So you don’t need to use as much
pressure or strength as in regular massage. Use soft hands, letting your fingertips and palms drift over the surface of the skin without
trying to achieve any therapeutic purposes. This makes it more sensual.
Sensual Moves
- Create fuller contact: When massaging one part of your partner’s body, press
you hip, thigh, breast against another part. Sit behind him/her on the seat.
- Hair Gliding: The fine ends of soft, silky hair can be instruments of
exquisite pleasure. Let your hair hang down and brush lightly across your
partner’s skin. Feathers and silk scarves work well at this also.
- The Most Sensual Organ of all; the brain!! Fantasizing is good. Encourage your
partner to share a few juicy morsels from his/her fantasies (or past- if you
are really brave) while you are applying your sensual moves. And tell him/her
yours as well. It can lead to some very interesting things!!
Massage Supplies:
- Oils and crèmes: Any of these will work. The scent is the principal
difference. So buy one or more from a pharmacy, The Body Works, or an on-line catalogue,
with a scent you enjoy. (When in doubt, go with a neutral scent such as
almond).
- Gadgets and Gizmos: You may want to go to any of a dozen Massage Supplies web
sites and check out various rollers, massage stones, back knobblers, bongers,
etc. Some of them are fun and actually help you with you massaging. Others are
a waste of money. (When in doubt resist the impulse to buy).
All
The Right Massage Moves
With the SpaChair
Although in these instructions the lady is receiving the
massage,
the same set of instructions apply when the man is on the
receiving end
v Moves with this symbol are where we part from standard massage
manuals. If you only have time for a few moves, these are the ones to
concentrate on to move you quickly to the most intimate reward. |
Getting
Comfortable
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Use the short pneumatic as the front leg of the SpaChair™ so that her
feet can touch the floor.
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Set the seatback of the SpaChair™ at about 45° and have her sit facing the seatback.
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Place a soft pillow between the seatback and her chest to support her
chest
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Place a disposable face cover over the face rest.
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Depending upon what she is wearing, you may wish to place a towel on the
seat for warmth and to absorb moisture
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Have her sit with her face in the face rest with arms in the arm hammock
hanging from the seatback. Adjust the length with the Velcro until she
is comfortable.
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Adjust the angle of the seatback, and/or have her sit further back or
forward until her face fits comfortably
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Stand behind her and place your hands on her shoulders. Your forearms
should be about horizontal. If not, adjust the height of the SpaChairSeat™
accordingly
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Shoulders and Back
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If you have massage oil or cream place a small amount in you hand and
rub them together to warm it up. Add more when the SpaChair or resistance
moves you.
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Grip the tops of both shoulders and knead firmly, with your thumbs in
back and fingers in front. Be firm, but gentle at the same time. (It’s a
Zen thing). For variety, switch to one shoulder with both hands, then
the other and back to both Ask if
this is too strong
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Step back, press your thumbs against the ridge of muscles on either side
of the spine, and work your way down her back
v Occasionally glide your hands slowly down her entire back and up again,
varying the pressure from light to firm
v Alternate with sliding your hands down her sides and up again
v Occasionally slide your hands teasingly toward her breasts, gently
touching the sides, but never the front- keep her
guessing
v If you have feathers, or silk scarves use them for occasional light
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Neck
- Have her tilt her head a bit into the face rest to lengthen her neck
- Stand slightly to one side and use the thumb and fingers of one hand to
knead up and down the back of the neck. Alternate hands and sides of the
neck. Ask if this is too strong
- Press your thumbs on the muscles to one side of the spine at the base of
the skull. ”Walk” your thumb down this muscle to the top of the shoulder.
Repeat this maneuver two or three times, each time further away from the
spine
v Occasionally slide your hands down her shoulders and onto her forearms
v Occasionally slide your hands around here shoulders and into her underarms-
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Head (Depending upon the fragility of her hairdo you may want to skip this
option. Ask her. By now she should be putty in your hands, and will just
nod)
· Place all ten fingertips firmly on her scalp and make small sized circles,
about the size of a quarter. Move the skin and tissue below. Move your
fingers to another location Avoid messing her hair
· Reach your fingers forward on both sides of the head and press on the
temples for 5 to 10 seconds Ask if this is too strong
· Gently knead the outside of her ears between thumb and the first two
fingers. Gently pull down on the lobes and up on the tops
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Lower Back
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Raise the nose of the SpaChair™ so that her lower back is comfortable for
you to reach, but still allow her to keep her feet on the floor. If her
lower back is still too low for you to comfortably reach, kneel or pull up
a chair
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Place you hands on the lumbar area (just above the waist). Apply firm
pinpoint pressure with the thumbs into the muscles on either side of the
spine, “walking” your way up the spine to the ribs and down
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Press firmly with the heel of both hands against the upper portion of her
buttocks, and make slow, firm circles with your hands in opposite
directions
v Slide you hands down her buttocks and along her thighs, kneading gently as
you go.
v Slide your hands around onto her belly, alternatively approaching here pubic
area and breasts, but never touching- keep her
guessing
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Hands and
Arms
- Pull up a chair in front and to one side of the SpaChair™
- Take one arm from the hammock and support the entire weight in your lap
· Gently Knead her palm between your thumbs and fingers, paying particular
attention to the large knuckles – ask if this
is too strong
· Squeeze each finger between thumb and fingers, as you pull slightly, moving
from the base to the tip. Do both the sides and tops and bottoms.
· Gently probe the webbing between her thumb and the index finger while
holding the rest of here fingers in your hand. Ask if this
is too strong
· Turn her palm down and apply a circular rubbing over the top of the wrist
- With her palm up, hold her arm in both hands and work your thumbs up the
forearm to the elbow
- Use both hands to circle the top of the arm and squeeze. Release and move
down a couple of inches and squeeze again, working your way to the wrist
v Occasionally slowly run one hand up and down the full length of her arm,
while supporting it with the other
- Stand up and step back, grasp her arm at the wrist and elbow and gently
shake.
- Repeat all of the above with the other arm
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Face She will need to turn around and sit on the seat leaning against the
SpaChair™
seatback. (Lower both the back and nose of the seat). She will be relaxed
and weak, so help her by opening the Velcro seals on the arm hammock and
giving her support as she turns around (its best if she never opens her
eyes).
· Let the seatback down to below 45° so that standing behind, her face is about at your waist
· Place your hands gently on the side of her head, thumbs resting on her
forehead, fingers at about sideburn level.. Glide your thumbs from the
middle to the outside and repeat, moving from eye brow to hair line
· Using fingertips, massage the temple/sideburn area
· With your index fingers, gently trace around the edges of the bones around
the eye socket
· Apply gentle pressure onto the eyelids (make certain she is not wearing
contacts)
· Ask her to clench her teeth and find the bulge where the jaws hinge
together. Have her relax and apply circular motions.
· Massage her ears, and pull gently on the tops and lobes
· Massage the scalp with fingertips in small circles
v Gently caress her nose and lips
v Slide your hands down her neck and onto the top of her chest and along the
sides of her chest- keep her
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Feet and
Legs
· Pull up a chair and put her foot in your lap. (Alternatively if you have
purchased the LuvSeat® Leg Holder, you can attach it and let it hold up her
legs)
· Hold her foot in one hand and with the other thumb massage the pads at the
base of her toes. Trade hands when one gets tired
· Hold her leg across your chest and gently knead the skin at the back of the
heel
· Put her foot on the nose of the SpaChair™ and with firm thumb pressure, make
small circles on the top of her foot.
· Move up and down her ankle and shin with both hands, gently squeezing and
caressing.
· DO NOT KNEAD THE LEGS. THERE IS A SMALL DANGER OF RELEASEASING BLOOD CLOTS.
v Occasionally slide your hands up her leg and thigh- keep her guessing
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Other
Bits: have her keep her eyes closed
v If you have a set of the LuvSeat® (www.LuvSeat.com)
nylon or leather stirrups, now is the time to hook them up so that her legs
can be held up for caressing from ankle to inner thigh and back to the other
ankle
v Now the feathers and scarves are really appropriate
v You can move around to the side and back of the SpaChair™ and massage and
caress whatever parts of her body interest you (or her).
v Belly touching: The front of the body is incredibly vulnerable and
sensitive. Use a series of light, gliding strokes all up and across the
abdomen and chest, just to stimulate the skin.
v You can sit on the nose of the seat and apply massage oil liberally to her
chest shoulders and belly.
v CONGRATULATIONS, you have completed the course and are now ready to move to
the LuvSeat users manual. |


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